Pastor's Note

A GIFT FROM CHRIS

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The past couple of days have awakened a remarkable pile of memories as we said goodbye to our friend, neighbor, extra son. The gift he left behind was this--a reminder of the very unique community God formed over the past couple of decades. Like fish unaware they live in the ocean, it's possible some of us just figured everyone enjoys such an ecosystem of camaraderie. The epicenter may have been Maria Street, but today it reaches to Senatobia, MS and Baltimore and East Africa, Louisville, Chattanooga, Philadelphia, and beyond. This Band of Brothers (which also includes a bunch of sisters!) is inextricably bound together forever. Their commitment to Christ is unmistakable, but they always stood ready to admit others into their ranks. To belong required a willingness to endure heavy doses of craziness, teasing, and practical jokes. This bunch includes some of the funniest people on the planet. We've sorted through countless photographs in the past week--the Starbuck Family Christmas Pic with big ol' Chris right there with us, the boys camping out on our trampoline, baptism photos, wedding pix, and more. The funeral home visitation was dominated by stories of Chris and the gang. When they kicked us out, we just moved over to Firehouse Subs. Somebody said he almost felt guilty for having so much fun at Chris's viewing. At the service the next day, we heard from just some of the guys--all 30-somethings now--who loved Chris like a brother. Christ was honored. The gospel of salvation was declared. Tears and laughter were abundant. We hugged each other, tried to comfort Chris's wife Amy and his parents, Denisce and Gordon, and told more stories. I left emotionally drained but spiritually filled. If Chris got to watch, I know he was pleased. I am so blessed by and proud of and thankful for all who populate this special group.